Simple way to connect with anyone

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The easiest way to connect with someone is to ask them what is their favorite music. Try it. 

Behind the science of music on the mind:

Here is a break-down of how the different genres correspond to our personality based on a study conducted at Heriot-Watt University:

To break it down, here is the connection they have found:

  • Blues fans have high self-esteem, are creative, outgoing, gentle and at ease
  • Jazz fans have high self-esteem, are creative, outgoing and at ease
  • Classical music fans have high self-esteem, are creative, introvert and at ease
  • Rap fans have high self-esteem and are outgoing
  • Opera fans have high self-esteem, are creative and gentle
  • Country and western fans are hardworking and outgoing
  • Reggae fans have high self-esteem, are creative, not hardworking, outgoing, gentle and at ease
  • Dance fans are creative and outgoing but not gentle
  • Indie fans have low self-esteem, are creative, not hard working, and not gentle
  • Bollywood fans are creative and outgoing
  • Rock/heavy metal fans have low self-esteem, are creative, not hard-working, not outgoing, gentle, and at ease
  • Chart pop fans have high self-esteem, are hardworking, outgoing and gentle, but are not creative and not at ease
  • Soul fans have high self-esteem, are creative, outgoing, gentle, and at ease

It's not easy generalizing based on this study, however there is some correlation to the science of introverts and extroverts.

How to apply the trick:

1. When you meet someone, ask them what is their favorite types of music. 2

2. When you find a match, start going deep. 

3. Ask why they like the artist? What connected the most with them about the artist? Do they have a recommendation for you. 

4. You now have built a connection with that person with this 1 simple trick. 

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